hi, i am 22 yrs old.. and i still did not have sex ( no penis has entered me) . i was just wondering, for about 5 years i had my boyfriend rub his fingers/penis through my vagina (not in and out, jus on the outside) and thats as far as we got... but now when i want to have sex, i just have the feeling that i wont bleed during the process, especially when i feel that something is different from before i had him rub it and after through out the years.. and the bleeding is very important to me for traditional reasons...is there something i should be worried about?