Im worried about a 25 year old female's behavior and health. She's been diagnosed with Ehler's Danlos Syndrome, Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia syndrome, and some offshoot of Mast Cell Activation syndrome. She has not confirmed the diagnosis with a geneticist. I've known her since before she went to get a diagnosis and saw multiple doctors for a while without getting a diagnosis, many of them saying she was making it up. She had been prescribed several different muscle relaxants, none I which I remember before the current diagnosis. She had been prescribed vyvanse in college but is since off of it. She also had a prescription for something called GABApentin for something. Supposedly, she frequently dislocates things, although I've never been witness to it. She has been receiving corticosteroid injections in her hip and knee and Im not sure exactly how often but it seems more often than she says. She is also prescribed a low dose of cymbalta supposedly for neuropathic pain. In addition to this, she has been self-harming by cutting. A diagnosis of Borderline Personality disorder would seem likely because I've known her to exhibit devaluing/valuing splitting, promiscuity, willingly embracing helplessness and using it to manipulate others, selective memory that is filled in by emotions, emotional triggering breakdowns when slightly invalidated even when factually incorrect, inability to discuss disagreements in a constructive way, a past of something that she called "meditation" in which she was "addicted to" because she would stay up all night which seems more like the kind of negative emptiness or dissociation associated with the BPD diagnosis, daily cocaine use, living vicariously through others, exhibits some characteristics of narcissistic supply and disregards the immoral actions of others who validate her, talking about suicide, eats very little and exercises very little, extreme aversion to perceived abandonment, lack of (and detestation!) of empathy, and in general just a weird manipulative one-sided relationships with people. I think it's vaguely relevant because she's been "searching" for a diagnosis for a long time and many doctors have turned her away. I also have read articles about how steroid injections can make people relapse quickly because of collagen down-regulation or depletion especially in sports injuries. EDS is a collagen disorder so it seems like it would not help and would exacerbate a milder case of the disorder. In addition, cymbalta has a side effect related to the POTS diagnosis as well and only really seems good for people who fibromyalgia and not POTS. The symptoms could be completely caused by the cymbalta. In addition, the cocaine use would seem to down-regulate norepinephrine as well as cause a whole host of unforseen side effects, and she doesn't tell her doctors about using it either. I believe she sees a rheumatologist currently. The test given to diagnose her for the EDS had a similar outcome to her roommate who does not have EDS or any disability from it. Her list of allergies is bizarre and doesn't seem real: arugula, bananas, avocados, among other random stuff. Her behavior lately has been worrisome as she's been triggered more and more lately. What should I do? I told her to see a therapist: physical, psychological, and occupational. BUT she is very against it. I dont know what to do. I'm worried she's either intentionally making her life harder like munchausen's, or that she is addicted to drugs and causing psychosis and worsening her physical disorder, or something else. Im going to live with her next year and Im worried that Im going to get sucked into a hole of a dependency or conflict that is completely brought about by her psyche and her lack of empathy for others. What should I do?