Suggest Remedy For Excessive Urge To Masturbate

thankx for everything, I am a 21 year-old boy my problem is that, i can not control my sexual desire, it forces me to masturbate, nowdays it's becoming a disaster, i masturbate up to 3 times a week, it's made me weak and aggressive. it is as if I'm being controled by an external power, I feel totaly depressed.

can u help me ?