Suggest Treatment For Muscle Condition With Dizziness & Nausea

I am a 26 yr old female who has been sick for years and it has only gotten worse over the years My symptoms started at about age 10 or so. I was told it was growing pains for years.An now I am told it could be an auto immune disease like M.S. or something.I had an M.R.I 3years ago and it was clean.I am tired of being sick an in so much pain.I could used all the advice an help I can get.I was very active as a child an teen even though it was very painful.Till I had my daughter in 2004 and my symptoms became much,much worse.

These are my symptoms ...


horrible shin,knee and ankle pain-they make popping and cracking sounds when I move them,
stomach swelling-it's very hard to the touch and very tender,
muscle weakness..started in my right arm and neck and legs...now has went to my back,
daily chronic debilitating migraines for the last 5 years,
optic neuritis in left eye,followed by tingling in left side of head and face-left eye is permanently dilated,I was told I had Sarcoydosis but,was never actually tested for it.Now I am told I do not have Sarcoydosis.
memory loss-not able to to normal daily tasks like I used to,
slurred speech at times,
swelling of hands,legs an feet,
extremely painful muscle spasms in calf muscles (last up to 1 hour at a time)-leaves me unable to walk the next day and stays sore,swollen an tender for 3 to 4 days after,
muscle twitches all over my body,
I feel tired an wore out all the time-never any energy,
dizziness an nausea,
chronic bowl problems,
extreme pain in legs,arms,back,neck,
muscles stay very tight and very painful-I cry from the slightest touch most days,
tingling in my hands feet and legs which moved to my back and stomach,it comes and goes,
My right hand and arm kind of draw up an get stiff..I can't hold anything in them it's to painful,
food makes me sick instantly after eating,
I stay very hot even in the winter I am burning up,