Im 45 yrs. old I had a daughter at the age of 41, I really didn't bleed much after having her not like I did my son 17 yrs ago. yeah big strech LOL well, anyways my periods started becoming erratic when they used to be on time, snyways I just stopped having periods all together I had my blood checked and yesterday they told me my bloodwork was fine as a matter if fact she said "it was perfect" well, with the hot flashes and not having a period in almost 2 yrs hardly call that perfect so now what? what if it is something serious what if i have cancer my whole family died of cance and all diff. kinds my mom had breast cancer when she was 35 but caught it in time please send me some helpful advice here I'm really a nervous wreck Kim