Hello, I am not the best at explaining the way I feel about things because I fear you're going to think I'm making stuff up. However here it goes, I'm a 24 year old female who has issues with myself, for more reasons then one, I'm very insecure and feel like I can't satisfy my fiance, he's into kinky, weird, rough sex. I however am not. I was forced to do something sexual as a kid to a teen-ager who knew better then to mess with a 6 year old. Anyway I'm just wanting advice on how to deal with this. I love my fiance and don't want to lose him over something I personally feel that doesn't feel right to me.