Hello, im 41 years old my partner is 56, we have been with her for 11 years, i was admitted to hospital with breathing difficulties, in December last year, i was released on February 12th this year, with permanent lung damage from contracting hospital born pneumonia, im now on 24/7 o2, my partner has had no interest in sex since i met her dues to cancer 20 years ago, i can not perform any more but i do still have a very high sex drive, i dont want that feel any more i want a calm enjoyable life with the woman i love, without the pain of my sex drive, can i have advice please