Hi I Was Wondering If U Could Help Me I'm

Hi I was wondering if u could help me I'm 42 and was told last yr I'm starting to go through menopause. Last few mo this when had sex when been due on period or had slight show before hand I've had a water blood discharge, or more like end of period amber in colour afterwards, had a smear just over year ago was normal, this last month had it again plus when we have foreplay had the discharge again light, this happened twice now I'm waiting for my appointment for nurse, this is making me so frightened can you please help?