Hi, so let me just say I'm probably getting ahead of myself here, but I'm kind of afraid so I'm looking online for help. I'm 17, and have had a long healthy relationship with my boyfriend. we've been together for almost 3 years now. we had started just fooling around for a while now, no actual intercorse. the other day (tmi I know) we were playing around, and he was going a bit hard. I had just gotten off my period 2-3 days before. my vagina was all sore from it, which is normal- goes away in a day. but he was eager to play around and had done it so soon, which is okay. but after only a little it began hurting. we tried it a few more times that day and it still hurt. today I woke up with a bit of itching around the clit and on the wall inside of my vagina. when I looked, it's very red. I have been itching around it all day, and it looks like the skin is broken a little at the clit. did he go too hard/ did I itch too much? or is there a real problem?