I am 85 years old female, have been recently diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer stage 3, I thought I was going to live to 100 without getting cancer as I am healthy not on any type of medications, my friends tell me I look 75 but now my breast surgeon has recommended chemo therapy for 4 months to shrink tumors and then surgery to remove and radiation, although I want to live longer I am afraid my body might not resist the chemo, what suggestions do you have for someone like myself?