I have a lump behind my ear In the crease that joins my ear to my neck, it is very tender to touch, but does not bother me, but as soon as you touch it its makes all my ear tender, I have discomfort in my neck and jaw line when it is touched, the lump was getting bigger and could not lay on it last night, it has gotten bigger over the last few days and felt very solid and making my ear lobe it self start to swell, last night I put a disinfected pin in the lump and lots of green came out and blood the lump is half the size but still very tender and pain still in ear