I'm a 23 year old male who has never been able to fully retract his foreskin. My mother recently told me that she thought I would pull back my foreskin instinctively, but that hasn't been the case. Though I have never been able to, or aware of the need to clean underneath my foreskin, I have never had a problem with smegma build up until recently. It burns when I pee. My penis is head is very sensitive, even running water over it hurts. I can't stand to do that for long. Also, my foreskin doesn't go back all the way and I'd rather not get circumcised. It goes back to a point, but hurts if I try to pull it back any further. I succeeded in pulling it back all the way once, but the penis head became constricted and it was the worst pain I've felt in my life. When i masturbate, I don't see the glands & I've never had sex so I don't know if that would be comfortable. I'm assuming it wouldn't. After 23 years, how do I begin pulling my foreskin back to clean it properly?