I've Been Diagnosed With Several Things Pointing To Problems With

I've been diagnosed with several things pointing to problems with a hernia repair surgery I once had. 3 begnin rumors ( they said shouldn't be causing me pain only mess with my menstral cycle) fibroglandular breast tissue, Teeth Enamel softenening 3rd partial in 8 yrs needing more dental work (dentures). My teeth were so beautiful... Painful stabbing burning stretching pulling in abdomen, when walking, r sitting too long, getting up, coughing, r just rubbing up against something especially washing dishes my stomach can't touch counter top. ( I can't describe the pain)like a magnetic pulling... Sometimes sweating in my sleep, twice i went to the hospital weak, sleepy, tired dazed and confused vomiting I'm rh- with anemia they gave me infection meds a z-pac 2 shots & told me to get Flintstones with iron, vomiting dark green substance was told it was bowel I may need a glosumy bag if I don't stop eating heavey food and get stowel softener but I barely eat if it's heavy food I can only eat 4 to 5 bites r n a saucer...I never was a big water salads sandwiches cereal & milk fruits soups mostly. Dr said it felt like a hernia was trying to grow... But the surgeon said Nothings growing... I know that there is... The pain comes alot when reaching, pulling, lifting and doing house work. Around 11am today the surgeon pushed on my stomach it's still hurting... A few times I've noticed after my stomach is pused on I have a bowel movement... But Not today... I need advice I have 4 grandkids I'm only 43 I got my life ahead of me... P.S. Do all Hernia's push outwards & show above the skin?