is being a virgin at 31(female) and not masterbating ever or playing with any toys UN healthy for me?? I am told I could be getting sick internally due to lack off affection and sex ??.....IS not having sex going to kill me in time?? I am told sex is "good" for you,,, and I NEVER did it,,, due to not having NO urges TO just go out and have sex!!! is there something wrong with me for being an attractive female without a sex drive???