hi, I live in Melbourne fl. 32940 ,my husband is an only child,his father passed away 8 mo's at age 83 his mother is 80 ----now---we live-- east coast-- mom west-- in Clearwater, dad was probably concealing the beginning??? ----- with her answering the phone 1st --- she's not home, movie with friends, gone for grocery's. I new something was not right when he would say---anything I could help you with---also she's in bed,this is a women I spoke to twice a wk. I told my husband your dad, don't want her talking on the phone--told him then when she came to the phone,after 3min,don't forget you have a an appointment--dentist- doctor- club meeting etc. The car title--owner's card,--etc. not on her name now is driving freely --can't --what you said 2 min--later-- pulling plug's out of TV's phone's lamps--walks around with a flashlight at night-- tamper's with the central air --pulling weed's obsessed with bushes trimming tree's --calling everyone-- paying people for all the service's --when her tv reboot's --no-clue how to work the remote-I could go on an on. We pay her bills automatically --Takes cash for herself from bank-- never used a visa card an don't want one-all her cash goes fixing her phone-- -tv-trim bushes--grass-now the tags are due on the car ,wants everything put in her name--an my husband is p.o.a.-- in charge of her mental-an wellness. Everyday it's a different obsession. Where do we start doctor wise.