mY 20 year old son is extremely unbalanced. Problems with the law, when he was in school, ADHD when younger didn't help-. He self medicates with illegal drugs, no respect, goals, drive, very defiant, lazy, confused. multiple run in with the law. Was suicidal hit a guy head on going 90 miles per hour and was pissed that he didn't die. He lives with his mom right now but needs desperately to get some type of diagnosis and treatment. Im afraid he will hurt himself.