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32 Year Old Having Low Libido. How To Overcome This Problem?

Posted on Sat, 24 Nov 2012

Question: i am 32 year old and i have very low libido...i am under constant work stress and poor diet for long time,but from last six months i am in better position,is this only reason for low libido..if so how to over come it...i am participating in sex once in a week,generally how frequently every body will participate.....i want to have sex daily...please guide me how to get well with minimum effort and maximum health

Answered by Dr. G.Srinivasan (15 minutes later)

Hi,

Welcome to XXXXXXX and thanks for your query,
The very fact that you want to have sex daily itself means that your sexual health is returning to normal.
Normally the frequency varies from almost daily sex immediately after marriage to once or twice a week later as one bears children.
This is also not constant and varies with families. There is no hard and fast rule and is based on convenience and interest.
Diet that would help are
1.     Dry fruits.
2.     Early dinner and empty stomach at bed time to prevent sleepiness and better quality of erection.
3.     Take time to talk to your wife and try to understand her as a whole.
4.     Prolonged foreplay.
5.     Give preference to sex at bed room than other things.
Having said all that, you need to make efforts for a better quality of life---
There is no single medicine or method for this!
Hope this helps,

Wishing you good sexual life
Regards
DR GS

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. G.Srinivasan (17 hours later)

thanks for the answer and one more query please...i got married some 5 years back and not having children so we are going for IUI treatment for 6 times and no result and doctor told if not this time its better to go for ivf treatment.......pls suggest is it correct method and also pros and cons in ivf treatment

Answered by Dr. G.Srinivasan (33 minutes later)

Hi

Welcome back.
Advantage of IVF is that if successful, you are going to be happy and also there is no other option.
Disadvantage is that, there are chances of multiple pregnancy, congenital abnormalities and of course failure rate.
Kindly discuss these issues with the specialist doing the IVF.

Regards
DR GS

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. G.Srinivasan (23 hours later)

thanks for the answer...very much satisfied.....one more question please...if we are going for ivf treatment how to prepare my body and my wife body to treatment...i think she needs lot of energy and resistance ...and is it sure about chances of abnormalities is more in ivf treatment...and can u suggest some good ivf hospitals in andhra or tamilnadu....please advise ......thank you

Answered by Dr. G.Srinivasan (26 minutes later)

Hi

Welcome back.
Incidence of congenital abnormalities DURING ICSI is slightly higher than compared WITH normal pregnancy.
Infants born after ICSI (An advanced type of IVF) were twice as likely as naturally conceived infants to have a major birth defect and nearly 50% more likely to have a minor defect.
Also, an excess of major cardiovascular defects, genitourinary defects and gastrointestinal defects in particular cleft palate and diaphragmatic hernia.
There is no specific preparation except leading a healthy life style with good habits, healthy diet, enough sleep etc.
Personally i do not have any suggestions and internet should be able to help you with the centers for IVF.

Regards
DR GS

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar