Question: Am I risk from HIV? I had an encounter a few months ago with someone who could have HIV and other stds. All we mainly did was light BDSM, light slapping and spanking plus. We were both naked. No toys/whips etc. Were involved. I was going to give her anal oral and I went to lick her but and stuck my tongue out, got close but then backed away and decided I didn't want to do it. I don't think I made contact but if I did it was very minimal and only one lick. The same thing happened with watersports was going to receive watersports and I let a bit go on my face. It definitely went down my face and might have gone in my mouth a bit but I don't think I had my mouth open. I decided not to do it afterwards so it was just that bit. Other than that were was a bit of mutual mastirbation with me receiving, I didn't give her any masturbation. We didn't have any form of intercourse. We didn't kiss. No oral sex involving her vagina or my penis was involved. A few months later I have a few ulcers in mouth and a couple of weeks after the event felt sick but I think that was from worry. If it was the worst case scenario and she had HIV that wasn't being treated and had other stds and was high risk, what would be the chance of me getting HIV from this scernario?

So in your opinion you don't think I would have contacted HIV? What defines very low? I have been tested for other STDs and have tested negative, but I've been too scared to test for HIV. I know though that with HIV there would have to the presence of bodily fuild and that bodily fluid would have to get into my blood stream. I also know saliva kills HIV and HIV doesn't survive outside the body, so in my case the urine I was exposed to would have to contain blood which would be rare, but it ran down my face first, so it was outside the body for a few seconds. With the anal oral it was barely one lick as well. This situations would be extremely rare to contract HIV wouldn't it? And since I have no other STDs that would be easier to transmit in this situation, it would be unlikely to get HIV? I'm just super worried to get tested.

Thank you for your responses, you just recommend to get tested to put my nerves at ease then? But you don't realistically think I have HIV it any other STD?