Can HIV Be Contracted Through Protected Anal Sex?
im on a business trip to kiev ukraine and we went to a strip club Apr 7th around 4-5 am
during this time i went with a stripper for a private show,
she was using a dildo for some time and giving me a massage,
then i started to give oral sex to her, mostly outside his vagina, i didnt see anything off there.
but for a brief period of time i start performing anal sex to her 2-3 min with a condom, i was very drunk and not very proficient at it, i struggled a lot to penetrate her,
i didnt even penetrate her fully during this time, perhaps 2-3 cm of my penis was inside her. (anal with condom).
After that i tried again on different positions with condom but im almost 100% sure i didnt penetrate her ( i was very clumsy).
then suddenly perhaps because of my clumsiness my condom fell of, (almost 100% that didnt penetrate her without condom) rubbing my penis against his ass, and anus.
im really scared even when i feel confident that the condom protected me, i know for sure it didnt break.
but i keep reading about kiev ukraine having a huge rate of AIDS on sex workers.
the stripper requested all time time to use condom,
i already went with an urologist and he perform a test for me, he told me we should get the results on monday.
i insisted a lot on starting on PEP because i didnt want to take any chances.
im really worried because i need to get back to my wife on 16th,
and i dont know what to do if she wants to have sex with me.
we dont use condoms, because we are trying to have kids.
The risk of getting HIV is very unlikely.
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXX,
Welcome to HCM. I have gone through your query and understand the concern you are worried about. Being your physician I will try to solve it at the earliest.
You had protected anal sex with a stripper and the condom didn't break during the whole act then nothing to be worried about because the risk of getting HIV is nil in your case even if the stripper was HIV positive also so just relax.
I agree that the prevalence of HIV/AIDS is very high in Ukraine but you are at no risk as the act was protected. Even without protection also the chances of getting HIV from anal sex are less as compared unprotected to vaginal sex.
Don't get anxious or tensed about HIV and wait for the test result. It will surely come in your favor and clear all your doubts. If still any doubt left in your mind feel free to ask me any time and I am always available here to help you.
Thank You
It's not bleeding
I did tried to anal finger her, but i think the repo sure to his anus was minimal and brief.
I forgot to inform the doctor about this. Do you want to see some photos?
Not risky.
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXX,
Welcome back and thanks for follow-up.
If the cut is inside the nail then there is no risk. You can share the photos for your satisfaction. Don't get anxious or worried and move ahead in life.
Thank You
Here's the link
http://imgur.com/YYYYYY
Not to worry at all.
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXX,
I have seen the photo and conclude that there is nothing to worry at all so forget about the incidence and move ahead. Always stay happy and healthy.
Thank You
and i will close this chapter of my life, and go back to my loving wife.
i can even said i have found god in this experience, and my life has completely changed, i will find a way to contribute to society in this matter.
you have no idea how, much your kind words have mean to me, i said this since the bottom of my heart.
i will wait for the results on Monday, and let you know what the results were.
You are most welcome.
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXX,
I am very happy to hear that you are feeling much relaxed now and have learnt your lesson. If you need any help in future you can directly write to me and I am always available here to help you any time. Wishing you a very happy life ahead.
Thank You
i just wanted to inform you that i got my other doctor result, and everything was ok.
everything came up negative, chlamidia, herpes, gonorrea etc,
he told me exactly the same thing that you told me, that i should not over sweat it, and get back to my life again.
i just have one last shot of paranoia.
when he made the tests he told me that, when was the last time i pee, i think because urine cleans the uretra.
i didn't couldn't honestly remember how much time passed since my last pee that morning, he told me that 2 hours was ok, or 1 hour and a half.
but i think i can go lowest at 1 hour to 1 hour20 minutes, because there was a lot of traffic.
i kinda felt like he pinched me from inside, that why i thought it was like very safe, but now i started to wonder if the results are accurate.
i know that i have been very annoying lately hehehe.
i'm also exaggerating this, are those exams very effective even after 1 hour of peeing?
The results are definitely accurate.
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXX,
Welcome back once again.
The test results are absolutely fine and accurate even with one hour of peeing also so don't get too anxious or worried because you are not at risk.
Thank You
I'm ready to carry on with my life and try to put all this behind, again thanks a lot.
you were like a guardian XXXXXXX
god bless you sir!
Always stay happy and healthy.
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXX,
You are most welcome nd I am very happy to hear that you are feeling better now. Wishing you happy and healthy life ahead.
Thank You
Related to stress or other viral illness.
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXX,
You are not at all any risk of STDs and the problem of loss of appetite, night sweats and diarrhea may be due to stress or anxiety or other viral illness not more than that so don't worry and follow treatment regime as per physician advice.
Thank You