Can A Homosexual Person Have Good Relationship With A Women?

Posted on Tue, 16 Aug 2016

Question: Hi there, I am a XXXXXXX male although I did not practice any sexual relationship witj either Boys or girls . I am wondering if I can have sex with girls , it is a family pressure to marry. Is it possible and how.thanks

Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (15 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
It is possible to have a good married life

Detailed Answer:
Hi
Thanks for the query
Sexual orientation is a complex subject Actually only 5% of men are 100% XXXXXXX , rest are bisexual with possibility of arousal by female varying from 10%to 100% Same applies to lesbians as well Second this can change with time depending upon availability of a suitable partner Some have significant performance anxiety with a female so prefer a male as sex partner Many of my patients who came to me with 10% female orientation with performance anxiety are living a happy married life I can not guarantee whether you will be able to have sex with a female or not but yes, this is possible for sure
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad

Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (33 minutes later)

How I can know that. I am little bit confused about your answer,can I or can not and how I know and what is the treatment for me. I want to be able to have sex with girls not straight. Thanks

Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (13 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
I need to assess you in detail

Detailed Answer:
Hi
You can know this by asking your self a question- if you have a chance to pick up a girl on one side and a male of other side, whom do you prefer? Do you get excited by thinking about some female ? How many times out of a possible score of 10 do you imagine a female or a male while masturbating? Do you feel your preference has changed more towards male or a female in the recent past? There is no treatment possible for changing the orientation but if some one has thoughts of a possible homosexual behaviour that are disturbing and against his will, it can be treated This can be decided only if you meet a qualified sexologist I can't answer whether you will have normal sex after marriage till I can assess you personally If some one is aroused by thoughts of female, he is straight or heterosexual
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad

Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (2 hours later)

Thanks for your answer.

I am always arouse by males which means that it is impossible to have a sex with female. I never feel attracted to girls . I thought that sexologist can help me to make sex with girls but based on your answer no way to change it .

If you have any advice or suggestions please reply back to me.

Regards

Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (8 hours later)

Brief Answer:
It seems to be difficult

Detailed Answer:
Hi
If you have never ever got aroused by imagining a girl, it will be difficult.
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Priyanka G Raj