Brief Answer:
yes, they are recognized symptoms
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
I have read your query diligently.
Yes,
canker sores and HIV can be a recognized symptom. In fact, they can go together with the other symptoms of HIV. It is because of the low immune state in HIV that it is most likely for a person to develop canker sores. This is possible.
There seems to be a lot of
stress going around at home between your wife and you. I am sorry about that.
Yes, your exposure is most likely to be related to the
oral sex episode. The multiple symptoms that your wife is facing may or may not be due to HIV. Has she been tested for HIV?
Diarrhea following chlamydia treatment is expected, also called as antibiotic associated diarrhea. Growling stomach is associated feature of it.
I would suggest both of you to remain calm. But both of you would need repeat HIV testing with
ELISA after around 3 months i.e 3 months from XXXXXXX 05 2014.
Meanwhile, it is good for both of you to take probiotics like
Lactobacillus. This is available over the counter. This will replenish the intestinal flora and get back your immunity and the diarrhea would stop as well.
Take a cup full of curd or yoghurt daily.
For the canker sores, I suggest over the counter available
multivitamin capsules on a daily basis for next few months.
It is important for both of you to consume nutritious food in the form of fresh vegetables and fruits.
If the test is negative after 3 months, then you both can stop worrying and move on in life.
Try to relax in the meantime. I hope this helps you a bit. let me know if there is anything else I can help you with.
Take care!