Brief Answer:
Do
HIV test, see
psychologist, talk to friends, ex
Detailed Answer:
Hi and thanks for the query,
I do understand how you could be feeling at this point in time. It is however not very rare to find persons resorting to some type of sexual activity to obtain pleasure, and deal with
stress. To some, it really works, but the results are generally very short lived.
The process of withdrawing from sex addiction at times requires time, personal determination, occupying one self with other activities, talking with friends and exercise, and intensifying your physical/sporting activities could help. The opinion of a clinical psychologist/
psychiatrist could be helpful.
Oral sex, unprotected, offers some degree of risk of HIV transmission. However, the risk is lower to that seen in unprotected heterosexual sex. Fever, especially for over three weeks and
sore throat are for sure some commonly seen symptoms in an
early HIV infection. It is important t note also that many persons could get infected and never really show these early signs and symptoms. This is to say, it is a valid justification to be tested, not because for the fact that you got some fever or sore throat, but because it is normal to get tested after a risky sexual act like
unprotected oral sex.
I think you should get tested. You might need the opinion of a psychologist or a psychiatrist. Exercise, talking to trusted ones and elders could help.
I do think its an excellent decision you just took to disengage from this acts. thanks and kind regards. Please, do feel free asking any follow up questions in case of need. I will be glad making my humble contributions. Kind regards.
DR Bain