Dear Doctor. Kindly Help Me One Thing. I Am Male

Posted on Sat, 30 May 2020

Question: Dear Doctor. Kindly help me one thing. I am Male aged 47 yrs working in the Government (sedentary) lifestyle and my weight is 75 kg. My problem is due to differences in the family and wife she is completely ignoring and we don't have sex since last 10 years i.e. at the age of 38 years. I am very fond of sex and my desires not fulfilled. When I want to masturbate with hand penis is not enlarging due to which I stopped masturbation with hand. Doctor I am in deep depression because I am becoming old and my desires are not fulfilling. My humble request to you is kindly write. Medicines for 1) increase libido 2) erection of penis always so that at least by doing masturbation I get some relief. Because of this I am not in a position to concentrate on other things. Kindly help me Doctor. Pl.dont say convince ur partner she doesn't cooperate. This issue knows my parents and her parents also. I have 2 children one is 14 yrs and another one is 9 yrs. Kindly cooperate Doctor. Also pl don't say that develop hobbies, deviate your mind. My intention is at least I want to be happy by doing hand masturbation only.

Answered by Dr. Shubham Mehta (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
Tadalafil

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Welcome here.
I can understand your concerns.

For erection, tadalafil (prescription drug) can be used.
For increasing libido, tentex forte (herbal preparation from himalaya company) is useful.

These medicines should be available at a pharmacy near you.

Hope this helps.

Thanks.

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Follow up: Dr. Shubham Mehta (1 hour later)

Dear Dr. Thank you very much for your valuable information.

Second thing, I have been suffering from Anxiety and Depression since childhood. Of course, 90% cured. Eventhough I am on medication.

I take lot of water. I cannot control urine. Once pressure is coming, small dribbling starts also it happens with motion also.

Last time when I posed this question, Doctors suggested for medicines. When I tood the medicines, it is giving foul smell of motion, yellow colour motion and motion is complete oily. Then immediately I stopped taking those medicines.

In your opinion, kindly tell me unable to stop urine and motion is because of anxiety problem or any other thing. One more thinkg Doctor since childhood whenever I go for urine smell is coming. My family members easily identify who went for urine. Kindly suggest.

Answered by Dr. Shubham Mehta (54 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Due to anxiety

Detailed Answer:
You are welcome.

The increase in frequency of urine and stool can be due to anxiety.

If there is dribbling of urine, you can reduce the amount of water intake. There is no need for excessive water consumption.

You can go for urine examination if not done yet.

Hope this answers your query.
Thanks.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Yogesh D