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Posted on Wed, 18 Sep 2019
Question: Dear Sir/Madam, This is a personal question which is bothering me from quite sometime now...I got married recently and on the very first night with my wife I have noticed that she was not a virgin(she didn't bleed and her vagina was lose already). When I asked her about the same she said she had some fungal infection, the treatment has caused the vagina to become lose. I want to understand is it possible to lose virginity on fungal infection treatment. I started losing her trust because it appears as if she is telling me stories to cover-up. the fungal infection caused was due to unhygienic sanitary pads usage is what she has claimed. Hope you clear my doubt on this... thanks in advance
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Answered by Dr. Dr. B. Radhakrishnan. Nair (44 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
It is a myth that she should bleed on first night

Detailed Answer:
Hi
Greetings
I can understand your situation.
But you can't finalise that she is not virgin just because her vagina is loose or no bleeding on first night.
Some girls masturbate and the vagina can be loose. Hymen can rupture before sexual intercourse with strenuous physical activities like cycling ,dancing etc .
You need to speak to her if this is disturbing you.
Unless you are convinced about it the relation can be strained.
So clear your doubts with her and if necessary get a gyneac check up.
Hope my answer helps you
Regards


Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Follow up: Dr. Dr. B. Radhakrishnan. Nair (1 hour later)
Sir when I asked he she says it is because if fungal infection treatment ....she says some tablets were inserted hence it is lose....is it possible like that???? she cleared out that she didn't masturbate
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Follow up: Dr. Dr. B. Radhakrishnan. Nair (6 hours later)
sir please reply
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Answered by Dr. Dr. B. Radhakrishnan. Nair (2 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Very difficult to comment without examining her vagina

Detailed Answer:
Hi
It is very difficult to comment without examining her vagina.
Hymen can tear during tablet insertion.
All this can be confirmed if you get gyneac check up.
Regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad
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Follow up: Dr. Dr. B. Radhakrishnan. Nair (13 hours later)
But sir we had sex in recently....Is it possible for gynecologist checkup to find out about hymen break due to tablets?
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Answered by Dr. Dr. B. Radhakrishnan. Nair (47 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Hymen can break without sex

Detailed Answer:
Hi
Hymen can break without sex.I suggested you to take an opinion from a GYNAECOLOGIST regarding loose vagina.
You can discuss with your gynaecologist after examine her.

Note: Revert back with your gynae reports to get a clear medical analysis by our expert Gynecologic Oncologist. Click here.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Nagamani Ng
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Dear Sir/Madam, This Is A Personal Question Which Is Bothering

Brief Answer: It is a myth that she should bleed on first night Detailed Answer: Hi Greetings I can understand your situation. But you can't finalise that she is not virgin just because her vagina is loose or no bleeding on first night. Some girls masturbate and the vagina can be loose. Hymen can rupture before sexual intercourse with strenuous physical activities like cycling ,dancing etc . You need to speak to her if this is disturbing you. Unless you are convinced about it the relation can be strained. So clear your doubts with her and if necessary get a gyneac check up. Hope my answer helps you Regards