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Does Frequent Masturbation Reduce One's Libido And Affect One's Sexual Experience?

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Posted on Wed, 12 Oct 2016
Question: Pardon me if things are hard to follow but this is a bit of a touchy subject. So I guess I'll start by stating that I normally masterbate on a nearly dayly basis, and normally it's pretty easy for me to reach and organism... a few minutes of working at it and I'm done. The problem is when I go with my boyfriend things will go on for almost an hour sometimes and I won't really climax until that. sometimes I need to finish myself... others things get really rough and well I have had a few raw marks that hurt for days after. What should I do? is there a way I can increase my ability to organism with my partner and not myself? does it have anything to do with my frequent masturbation?
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Answered by Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (2 hours later)
Brief Answer:
You need to reduce frequency of masturbation .

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for your query ,based on the facts that you have posted it appears that you are facing problem of not getting orgasm while having sex with your girlfriend as against early orgasm while masturbating .

This is mostly due to habitual and frequent masturbation that you are indulged with since many years .

Climax of sexual satisfaction (Climax) is the result of penile stimulation .During masturbation there is excessive stimulation of penis due to firm grip of hand which leads to climax and early ejaculation .where as in intra vaginal sexual intercourse there is no firm grip of penis by lax vaginal walls and reduced sexual stimulation of penis .This is the reason for delayed climax or no climax at all.

You need to reduce frequency of masturbation to twice a week .Try to reduce the frequency of masturbation by keeping yourself busy in activities like sports ,reading ,social work etc so that you will not get free time to masturbate.

Hope I have answered your query ,please feel free to ask if you have more questions , I shall be happy to help you .
Thanks and Regards.
Dr.Patil.

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Does Frequent Masturbation Reduce One's Libido And Affect One's Sexual Experience?

Brief Answer: You need to reduce frequency of masturbation . Detailed Answer: Hello Thanks for your query ,based on the facts that you have posted it appears that you are facing problem of not getting orgasm while having sex with your girlfriend as against early orgasm while masturbating . This is mostly due to habitual and frequent masturbation that you are indulged with since many years . Climax of sexual satisfaction (Climax) is the result of penile stimulation .During masturbation there is excessive stimulation of penis due to firm grip of hand which leads to climax and early ejaculation .where as in intra vaginal sexual intercourse there is no firm grip of penis by lax vaginal walls and reduced sexual stimulation of penis .This is the reason for delayed climax or no climax at all. You need to reduce frequency of masturbation to twice a week .Try to reduce the frequency of masturbation by keeping yourself busy in activities like sports ,reading ,social work etc so that you will not get free time to masturbate. Hope I have answered your query ,please feel free to ask if you have more questions , I shall be happy to help you . Thanks and Regards. Dr.Patil.