Getting Episodes Of Unconsciousness While Crying. What Could Be The Problem?
I appreciate your concern for your sister. These episodes of "unconsciousnes", sometimes accompanied by hyperventillation, which your sister is having, seem to be indicative of a psychological problem called Dissociative disorder. This disorder is caused due to underlying, unresolved psychological stress or conflicts, which she is not able to handle appropriately. She needs a detailed psychological assessment and further treatment by a Psychiatrist. Treatment is mostly by means of counselling and psychological therapies. Sometmes, she may need medication for a short period also. Your approach may not be the right solution as it does not tackle the root cause of the problem. Unless she is able to resolve her underlying stressors or conflicts, her symptoms will not improve. So, please take her to a Psychiatrist for further evaluation and treatment. There is a high chance of improvement and recovery with appropriate and timely therapy.
Wish you all the best.
- Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar
Consultant Psychiatrist
I did not talk to my Mom and Dad for the same because I do not wanted to hurt them and most of the time she have fight with her hubby and not able to adjust her life, Is it also a reason between them. one more thing I forgot to put here is that "she is very Emotional" by nature.
Thanks
This is not a genetic disorder or a serious mental illness. This disorder is common among people who are very emotional and sensitive (as mentioned about your sister) and those who don't have the emotional strength to handle difficult situations. So, when there is psychological or environmental stress (like family problems, relationship problems, etc) they find it difficult to handle it or cope up. This psychological stress and tension manifests itself as such kind of physical symptoms. So, it is actually an indicator that such people need help and are finding it difficult to handle life. That is why I mentioned that she needs professional help. Now, the earlier she is given counselling and therapy, the earlier will she get relieved of the stress and her symptoms will also subside. But sometimes, if you let these episodes continue without proper therapy, it may soon become a habitual behaviour, which may later on be difficult to stop.
I think that it is better to let your parents know about this, so that they will be able to take her to a psychiatrist. The psychiatrist will evaluate her in detail, find out what is causing her stress, whether it is the quarrels and misunderstandings with her husband, etc. and counsel her so that she is able to handle such stressful situations better. If necessary, he may also call the husband for a marital counseling in order to improve their relationship and understanding.
So, it is not going to help her if you just keep it secretive from her parents or just ignore this. Please explain this to your parents in a gentle way - you can tell them that you consulted a psychiatrist online and that he advised that your sister seems to be in a lot of emotional stress and that she needs a psychiatric consultation.
Wish you all the best.
- Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar
Consultant Psychiatrist