
Had Sex Without Penetration. Is There Any Chances Of Getting Hiv From Vaginal Fluid Touching To Penis?

Question: I went to Thailand two weeks back. I went for a body massage. During massage I fondled and caressed her boobs and give some closed mouth kisses on face and shoulder. She was on her underwear and I was wearing my towel. We didn't,t have any penetrative sex. At last I felt she ejaculated. Is there any chances of getting hiv from vaginal fluid on her underwear touching my penis or any other parts. After one week I had cold with mild fever and mild lymph node enlargement which last for a week for which I took some antibiotics. Is there any chance of getting hiv through these acts. Can I have unprotected sex with my wife
Dear XXXXXXX
From your description, it appears you are safe & there is no contact with any bodyfluids admixed with blood or blood products & there were no cuts on your hands or mucous membranes.
However, just for safety & also your mental peace do a PCR test for HIV..it will 99.9% turn out negative..the fever & cold were probably just a regular viral fever. Relax. However, let it be a lesson for the future to practice safe sex!
Godspeed & trust this has given you a clear answer & allayed your worries...wish you continued good health! Cheers!
Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD
Dermatologist, Cosmetologist, Venereologist XXXXXXX Hospital, Bangalore, India
From your description, it appears you are safe & there is no contact with any bodyfluids admixed with blood or blood products & there were no cuts on your hands or mucous membranes.
However, just for safety & also your mental peace do a PCR test for HIV..it will 99.9% turn out negative..the fever & cold were probably just a regular viral fever. Relax. However, let it be a lesson for the future to practice safe sex!
Godspeed & trust this has given you a clear answer & allayed your worries...wish you continued good health! Cheers!
Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD
Dermatologist, Cosmetologist, Venereologist XXXXXXX Hospital, Bangalore, India
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar


I believe my nose and lips touches her body and I believe both of them have mucus membranes. I don't have any fresh cuts, but my body have lot of acne and exposing any of these parts to vaginal fluid from wet underwear poses a threat... I reside in Middle East and here it is too difficult to do pcr. I have to go to India to do that. Really I need it???? Please advise
Hi there XXXXXXX
Relax. Your problem is not at all serious. There are next to no chances of any infection in your case & that too from wet underwear! If you have no recent cuts or abrasions in the nose or lips, nothing to worry about. Is your wife in the middle east too? & for the record, i resided 10+ years in the middle east in a place called Abu-Dhabi & PCR testing is very much available there. But, no it is not absolutely required. I was only recomending it prior to sleeping with your wife unprotected for your 'peace of mind'..cheers & Good Luck!
Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD
Relax. Your problem is not at all serious. There are next to no chances of any infection in your case & that too from wet underwear! If you have no recent cuts or abrasions in the nose or lips, nothing to worry about. Is your wife in the middle east too? & for the record, i resided 10+ years in the middle east in a place called Abu-Dhabi & PCR testing is very much available there. But, no it is not absolutely required. I was only recomending it prior to sleeping with your wife unprotected for your 'peace of mind'..cheers & Good Luck!
Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

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