
Hello Sir. Wanted To Know Psychology Based On Following Information.

Consultation
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.
I read your query and understand your concerns.
From the available description it appears that she was loyal to her relationship and wanted same loyalty from her partner. However due to trauma suffered in the past she indulged in something which was not of her character. It is common to behave differently when someone is under stress and same seems relevant for the girl in question.
The points in favour of her loyalty include long duration of relationship in past, decision to offer loyalty test to her partner, Leaving the partner on failing the test.
I understand your concern about the point that she failed to inform you adequately well in advance but it does not mean there is compromise on loyalty. It is well understood that before sharing personal details all of us need to have some secure base and trust with other person.
Having said this I must acknowledge that there can be more and in person consultation can be more helpful.
I hope this helps you.
Feel free to write back to me if you have more questions.
Thanks again.


Sir, my question is whether or not she was wrong, should I be worried about or not, giving priority to friends over bf, etc. Want to know the psychology of that time with the relevance of it today after about 1.5 years.
Follow up
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for follow up.
From the available description it appears that there is little to worry about the trust issues. As communicated earlier continuation of relationship for eight years almost rules out possibility of infidelity/trust issues. In addition establishment of patch up after getting appropriate apology indicates that she has more concern with trust and respect than any other average girl in society.
I hope this clarifies further.
Thanks again.


Overthink can definitely affect the relationship
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for reverting back to me.
There is no doubt that undue concern is cause of problem rather than solution. It has been commonly observed that persons with tendency to overthink have more problems in their emotional world in compare to people with less tendency to overthink.
It is good idea to manage stress and avoid overthinking as far as possible. In case stress management fails to help completely you can think of psychotherapy in form of cognitive behavior therapy.
There is nothing called as post withdrawal symptoms after years/months of medication discontinuation. This is applicable only for the first month after medicine is stopped.
I hope this helps you further.
Thanks and regards.

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