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Hi Doctor, Seeking Suggestions, And Advice For An Issue, Which
Question: Hi Doctor,
Seeking suggestions, and advice for an issue, which I’ve been facing for a couple of years, from now.
Let me give you a brief description of myself. I am 31 years old single male, an MBA graduate having 3 years of work experience. Currently, I am working at Pvt.Ltd company in XXXXXXX
But, the sad part is neither I am enjoying continuing in the job. As, I don’t have any other options to do right now, so for the sake of doing something, I’ve been continuing to be doing it.
I can shift to some other company easily, but that wouldn’t be my goal. As I don’t want to do any job. Though, our financial status is not that much worse. I can even start a business with the help of my family members. But the sad part is, I have no idea, what to start, and when to start and how to start?
When I look back all my batch mates have already been well settled in life, got married, but, still, I haven’t settled well, and too haven’t got married yet. Am I the only one crossed the marriage age?
My main issue and problems have been, I haven’t found any purpose and or aim, that what will I do in next 2 to 3 years. Purposeless and meaningless life of mine has become.
Therefore, I in desperately in need of help and suggestions, that how can I find my passion, aim, the goal in my life, for which I would continue to work hard to achieve that one?
As, I am getting older, won’t have much time to be settled well, as most of my batch mates have already been well settled. I need to find a way to solve the aforesaid issues and problems.
Thanks!
Seeking suggestions, and advice for an issue, which I’ve been facing for a couple of years, from now.
Let me give you a brief description of myself. I am 31 years old single male, an MBA graduate having 3 years of work experience. Currently, I am working at Pvt.Ltd company in XXXXXXX
But, the sad part is neither I am enjoying continuing in the job. As, I don’t have any other options to do right now, so for the sake of doing something, I’ve been continuing to be doing it.
I can shift to some other company easily, but that wouldn’t be my goal. As I don’t want to do any job. Though, our financial status is not that much worse. I can even start a business with the help of my family members. But the sad part is, I have no idea, what to start, and when to start and how to start?
When I look back all my batch mates have already been well settled in life, got married, but, still, I haven’t settled well, and too haven’t got married yet. Am I the only one crossed the marriage age?
My main issue and problems have been, I haven’t found any purpose and or aim, that what will I do in next 2 to 3 years. Purposeless and meaningless life of mine has become.
Therefore, I in desperately in need of help and suggestions, that how can I find my passion, aim, the goal in my life, for which I would continue to work hard to achieve that one?
As, I am getting older, won’t have much time to be settled well, as most of my batch mates have already been well settled. I need to find a way to solve the aforesaid issues and problems.
Thanks!
Brief Answer:
Nothing to worry, as big things have certain time to happen.
Detailed Answer:
Hi ,
Welcome to ask a doctor service,
I have gone through your query in detail and can certainly understand your concern towards your problem.
But, I can definitely say that everything in this world happen for the certain reason at certain time.
As far as my opinion, you are not so old enough to stop thinking or worrying about your future, marriage or goals.
Still you are young , and try not to compare with your fellow think in such a way that how can compete with yourself and fulfil your aims and goals in the right way to succeed.
If you feel that your mood is sad, not interested in any work, you can start some antidepressants.
Hope you have a better future.
Looking back for any queries.
Thank you.
Nothing to worry, as big things have certain time to happen.
Detailed Answer:
Hi ,
Welcome to ask a doctor service,
I have gone through your query in detail and can certainly understand your concern towards your problem.
But, I can definitely say that everything in this world happen for the certain reason at certain time.
As far as my opinion, you are not so old enough to stop thinking or worrying about your future, marriage or goals.
Still you are young , and try not to compare with your fellow think in such a way that how can compete with yourself and fulfil your aims and goals in the right way to succeed.
If you feel that your mood is sad, not interested in any work, you can start some antidepressants.
Hope you have a better future.
Looking back for any queries.
Thank you.
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