Hi,Amars

Thanks for posting your query.

What you are having is known as premature ejaculation,means the semen comes out very soon during sexual act.

There could be various reasons for that.I would like to know whether you are married or not ?

This is not a uncommon problem.

Before going further let me explain you something about the act.
The entire sex experience consists of there parts
1.Foreplay-touching ,caressing etc.
2.Play-penetrative act
3.After play-touching,kissing etc.

All this three phases carries equal importance.Please spend more time in foreplay as this leads to increase in excitement in both partners.This in turn lead to release of more sex hormones and you get a stronger and sustained erection.

There are dots like thing on your glans this are the excitation centers,when they get stimulated due to touch/friction you get pleasure.


There are ways by which you can have longer erection and delayed ejaculation.

1.Use condom
2. Use start and stop technique-means withdraw in between the act for some seconds
3.When ever you feel you are about to come,press base of your glans firmly between your thumb and fingers ,the semen will not come out.

This will definitely help you.
Medicines in most of the cases are not required.

Different positions will also help you stay longer.

At times performance anxiety is the commonest reason for early ejaculation.

I hope this answers your query,I will be available for follow up.

Regards,

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Hi,Amars,

Good to hear from you again.

I believe that what you have is performance anxiety.When ever you new to this ,this can happen.

There is no need to worry,just try what I have already suggested and you will not have any problems in your marriage life.

Please for your safety do forget to use condom every time .

Your partner can help you a lot in this,ask her to guide you properly and as told earlier excite her properly by other methods before the actual act to satisfy her.

Take good food,keep your anxiety under control during the act and you will be doing good.

Regards,

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Hi XXXXXXX

Good to hear from you again.

What you are having is known as night fall or spontaneous ejaculation. This is very common in young men.

When ever you get excited in your sleep out of your knowledge the semen is released. This is just same as masturbation the only difference is this happens in sleep. This is normal again and you do not need any special treatment for this.

Do not lie on your stomach which at times may cause excitement of your penis due to friction. Wear properly fitting undergarment.

In general do regular exercise like walking, jogging etc.., which you are comfortable with. Stop tobacco in any form and take good healthy diet.

Hope this answers your query.

Wish you a good health.

Regards.

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