Brief Answer:
Consult a Psychologist
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXX,
Thanks for your query. I can fully understand your dilemma.
However, I am slightly confused. Clarify what you mean by being extremely handsome. Do you mean that you are extremely beautiful, or have a below average looks.
I presume that you are very beautiful. If that is true, your BEAUTY is an ASSET. It is people's sheer JEALOUSY which manifests in the form of boycott. You should feel proud of the fact that YOU are the cause of their
inferiority complex. Secretly, all your colleagues wish to have good looks like you. So, your victory lies in their defeat!
Further, it is the internal beauty that really matters. I am sure that you have a heart of gold; you are sincere, dedicated, hard working, kind to people, have a helpful attitude. THESE ARE THE REAL QUALITIES OF A GREAT MAN.
You need not bother of what people think about you or say behind your back, as long as your conscience is clear. Do not be highly sentimental. Learn to be more practical and pragmatic. One lives for himself and NOT for the society. Racism is prevalent not only in Tamilnadu, but all over India.
Enjoy yourself in the company of the small group of friends. Work hard and concentrate only on your studies/career. Your focus should be on doing well in life. It is educational qualification and position which commands respect in the society.
Lastly, STOP bothering about other people: learn to live for your self; acquire as much education as possible; rise above others in career and do well. THERE IS NO PLACE FOR MENTAL
DEPRESSION.
SO, CHEER UP! make a name and reputation for yourself. Respect, admiration and fame will follow.
Lastly, a consultation with a Psychologist will do you good. He/she will help you in coming out of depression, bring back your self-confidence and self-esteem.
You can write to me as many times as you wish. I will always be with you. AND, I AM VERY PROUD OF YOU.
Hope I have addressed to your concerns to your complete satisfaction and you find my response helpful and informative. I will be happy to answer further queries, if any.
Take care,
Col (Dr.) Rakesh Karanwal