How To Deal With A Complaining Spouse?

Posted on Wed, 18 Jun 2014

Question: Hello and thanks for a great response, still trying to work out things, I was just wondering am I at fault ? OR MY WIFE IS SUFFERING from some sort medical issue she always bring things up from past , every time tell me iam not doing any thing for kids , I pay for their fee and car and every thing else about 50k year for each, always remember only bad things never ever remember or appreciate any things good that I have done what is her problem please advice

Answered by Dr. Lohit K (4 hours later)

Brief Answer:
relax. focus on small things

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
I went through the query and understood your concern.

Be relaxed. No need to worry for this. You both are doing well.

Always with everyone women(wife) will depend on male(husband) for everything. This includes security, status and most importantly care. She wants to see your care more often and even on small things like outing with children, buying dress and sweets and spending time with them. These may appear simple but wife expects without telling.

So apart from spending for education try to show your care and attention towards family. Engage with your wife in discussing about everything you are doing to your family. Give her some tasks like planning some outings etc and discuss about the program. These will satisfy her feelings.

I hope this information helps you. Feel free to ask for any further queries. I will be glad to answer them.
Wish you good health and happy family.

Regards

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar