Question: I am XXXXXXX XXXXXXX age 32 years.
I got married in early 2017, and was sexually active with my wife ever since. I masturbated regularly , thrice a week, ever since my adolescence.
In 2017, sexual life with my wife was perfectly alright. In 2018, it was still alright but occasional delayed ejaculation used to happen.
From 2019, onwards occasional (slowly moving towards more frequent) erectile dysfunction along with delayed ejaculation has started happening.
In 2017, I was maintaining fit and healthy body. although my structure is such that i gain weight in my stomach and hip area , still i was maintaining a healthy and fit body.
From 2018 onwards due to hectic travel schedules, my food and workout habits got distorted and i gained considerable weight in my aforesaid problem areas. I also was a vegetarian till 2017. But from 2018 onwards for 1 year i ate non veg on a daily basis but again over last 1 year its reduced to once or twice a week.
Since, I don't get this problem every time during sexual activity with my partner, i have realized that this happens on days when i am physically and mentally exhausted. This exhaustion is work related and sedentary lifestyle linked. Many of the times when we have had healthy sex it was in the early morning when i just woke up and was relaxed and energetic.
I don't have any kind of addiction, i don't drink and smoke at all. Besides, my blood reports are perfectly normal this includes no problems with sugar levels or any organs. I do have a fatty liver and got operated for galll stones in 2016.
I have never had any tests for this problem and this is the first time i m discussing with doctor.
My wife has also put on considerable weight due to hormonal issues and we have a discontented marriage because of lack of sexual activity.
Her weight gain did make her sexually unappealing to me.

please help me with this issue.