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I Am A Bottom Bisexual ( Passive) .. Yet I
Question: I am a bottom bisexual ( passive) .. yet I am married. I used to be able to keep erection normally in my intercourse with wife normally. but yesterday and the day before I started to have a quick loss of erection before intercourse. I take Cialis 20 mg but it did not do good.
these are my first failures .. could this be due to my passive (bottoming) in sex with men? and how to remedy it?
i have to mention that during the past few months I opted to spray local anaesthetic to my organ to delay ejaculation while with men.. and in many times I did not ejaculate at all despite all the excitement. could that have harmed me in anyway?
these are my first failures .. could this be due to my passive (bottoming) in sex with men? and how to remedy it?
i have to mention that during the past few months I opted to spray local anaesthetic to my organ to delay ejaculation while with men.. and in many times I did not ejaculate at all despite all the excitement. could that have harmed me in anyway?
Brief Answer:
It is mostly due to Performance Anxiety
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for query .
Based on the facts that you have posted inability to sustain erection or loss of erection during sex with female partner that you are facing since very recently is mostly Psychogenic in nature and is due to what is called as Performance Anxiety .
It is not related to using local anesthetic jelly sprayed over pens while having sex with male partner .
It is transient and would subside spontaneously over a period of time .
Spend more time in foreplay
Taking Cialis 5 mg daily and 20 mg one hour before planned sex would help to get good hard sustainable erection and to have enjoyable sex .
Hope I have answered your query ,please feel free to ask if you have more questions,I shall be happy to help you
Thanks and Regards.
Dr.Patil.
It is mostly due to Performance Anxiety
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for query .
Based on the facts that you have posted inability to sustain erection or loss of erection during sex with female partner that you are facing since very recently is mostly Psychogenic in nature and is due to what is called as Performance Anxiety .
It is not related to using local anesthetic jelly sprayed over pens while having sex with male partner .
It is transient and would subside spontaneously over a period of time .
Spend more time in foreplay
Taking Cialis 5 mg daily and 20 mg one hour before planned sex would help to get good hard sustainable erection and to have enjoyable sex .
Hope I have answered your query ,please feel free to ask if you have more questions,I shall be happy to help you
Thanks and Regards.
Dr.Patil.
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