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I Have Suddenly Started Having Trouble Reaching An Orgasm And

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Posted on Sun, 12 May 2019
Question: I have suddenly started having trouble reaching an orgasm and ejaculating during intercourse. I have no trouble with erections, and even have pre-ejaculate fluid appear during arousal. But no happy ending for me. My wife and I normally had intercourse 3-4 a week and no problems. Starting about a month ago, problems.

I am 65 yo male, no BP problems, or health problems of any kind except chronic pain from a war injury to my neck and head. Just had a physical and I am allegedly doing great. Help, please.
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Answered by Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (5 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Inability to ejaculate is mostly due to performance anxiety.

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for query .

Inability to ejaculate or getting orgasm at this age is very common and is mostly due to two factors
1) Reduce Testosterone secretion by testicles and
2) Due to what is called as performance anxiety.

Get your blood tests to estimate Testosterone levels done
Discuss the issue with your wife as her co operation is equally important to resolve the issue .
Following tricks do help to solve the problem.
1)Masturbating two hours prior to planned sex does help to get orgasm .
2) Modifying sex techniques like modifying sex positions can help .
3) Giving a hand blow or oral sex by your female partner helps to stimulate the penis which is prime factor to get orgasm and ejaculation

Hope I have answered your query ,please feel free to ask if you have more questions,I shall be happy to help you
Thanks and Regards.
Dr.Patil.

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I Have Suddenly Started Having Trouble Reaching An Orgasm And

Brief Answer: Inability to ejaculate is mostly due to performance anxiety. Detailed Answer: Hello Thanks for query . Inability to ejaculate or getting orgasm at this age is very common and is mostly due to two factors 1) Reduce Testosterone secretion by testicles and 2) Due to what is called as performance anxiety. Get your blood tests to estimate Testosterone levels done Discuss the issue with your wife as her co operation is equally important to resolve the issue . Following tricks do help to solve the problem. 1)Masturbating two hours prior to planned sex does help to get orgasm . 2) Modifying sex techniques like modifying sex positions can help . 3) Giving a hand blow or oral sex by your female partner helps to stimulate the penis which is prime factor to get orgasm and ejaculation Hope I have answered your query ,please feel free to ask if you have more questions,I shall be happy to help you Thanks and Regards. Dr.Patil.