Question: need a reply from sexologist..

Hi, i am 29 , living in XXXXXXX i did masturbation for 13 years since i was 14 almost twice a week. then after masturbating for 8 years in 2008 i suffered from testicular torsion due to which my left testicle was removed. After that i stopped masturbation but continued after a year of surgery once in a month. And observed that my ejaculation volume is reducing and i ejaculate within one minute of starting masturbation. Now for last one and half year i have completely stopped this habit but started to suffer from nightfall initially once in month to now twice in a week or more. And Also semen leakage on passage of stool once in a week and sometimes same leakage after passing of urine. this is happening for last 4-5 months. After night fall i find very few drops or stain on my underwear of light white color and very small quantity of liquid around it. Sometimes there is only one drop. Similarly in semen leakage there is only one or two drops that come off. i have also noticed that my penis has curved to the left in normal state and when flaccid but doesnot look too much only slighty curved on erection.
Also i had developed a habit of pressing my PC muscles and then kind of ejaculating at the end of urine passage through which the remaining urine comes off no other fluid(is this psycological or there is something wrong inside). I have started gym and meditation for past 15 days but nothin has helped.

I have many issues running in my mind and causing stress..Please advice in detail:
Is all this due to over masturbation?
Is there any cure for this?
Is there any cure for curved penis?
night fall an d semen leakage generally happens when i talk to my girlfriend for long hours, but not during talking only after urine or as night fall and also i am about to get married in 2 months will it be right to go for marriage and to have sex?
Does these only few drops in night fall indicate low sperm count and infertility?

Please suggest do night fall and semen leakage cause any sexual weakness, also what is the reason for their regular occurance and what is cure for both. I have heard that nightfall and semen leakage are due to weakness in parasympathetic nerves, is this true? if so what is the treatment for the same.

And also is it possible to survive with one testicle and what precautions should be taken for its good health.

Also i had developed a habit of pressing my PC muscles and then kind of ejaculating at the end of urine passage through which the remaining urine comes off but no other fluid. is this psychological or there is something wrong inside ? what is the cure for the same.?

Ejaculation was too early when i used to do masturbation a year or so back. Is this sign of premature ejaculation? Will this create problems in having sex and what is the cure for the same.

Please reply in detail as i have been very worried about all this happening with me, have performance anxiety and also has a guilt for doing masturbation.

is it possible to survive with one testicle? and have good sex life? what precautions should be taken for its good health?

Also will these night fall and semen leakage problems that i am having now will they impact in future in old age because at that time i will be having less control over my body and sex organs with ageing? what should be done to keep them in good health.

When i talk to my girlfriend , the penis expands and remains in flacced state doesnt errect, is this normal.

Also this anxiety of performance and guilt of masturbation is killing me, how to get rid of it?

Nowadays, I am not having morning hood, either they are too weak or absent, is this an health issue.
I am about to get married in 2 months can this all be cured,? should I go for the marriage??
Should i go for any tests before marriage like semen analysis or scrotal scan or testosterone level test?

Kindly advice.

Sir, thanks for the reply. i want to know how to cure this nightfall when sleeping
and semen leakage on passage of stool.

Does passage of semen during stool indicates any problem with the prostate??

Also when i talk to my girlfriend my penis expands but doesnót go erect. Feels like it is life less. Is this a problem.

Also my penis is curved to the left. how to rectify that?

Is it possible to survive with one testicle. I am lacking confidence and not able to concentrate on studies and career because of all this. I feel like this all is because of masturbation.

Can this removal of testicle will be considered as medically unfit if i go for a job in an MNC which requires medical examination before giving a job.

Sir,

Still some of my querries have been left unanswered:

Also my penis is curved to the left. how to rectify that?

Is it possible to survive with one testicle?

Can this removal of testicle will be considered as medically unfit if i go for a job in an MNC which requires medical examination before giving a job?

How to have confidence while having sex , i am worried about performance.

How to deal with these erection problems ? any medication is needed??

the situation i am currently in can this lead to erectile dysfunction or infertility.

Please elaborate each as getting all this clear in my mind is really essential for me. I would be thankful to you.

Thanks a lot Sir for clearing my doubts.

I want to know few more things. I am getting nightfall every 3rd or 4th day. It is just 1 or 2 drops of something white that i found on my underwear after waking up.

1) Is this normal.
2) Having frequent nightfall is a problem??
3) Having only 1 or 2 drops in nightfall does that indicate low sperm count.
4) Is this any kind of weekness or malfunctioning of valve or anything.
5) Is this sign of any infection.
5) How to control this frequent night fall.

Please elaborate each in detail. I am about to get married in 2 months .Please help