Brief Answer: Hi Detailed Answer: Hello, Thanks for your query. I appreciate your efforts for medical consultation in so much distress. From your query it appear that both of you love each other but same time have some adjustment problem. The cause of these issues need to be understand in non judgmental way. Any of the partner may have more problematic behavior which need to be corrected. I would advice both of you to visit relationship or marital counselor for detailed evaluation and intervention according to the problem. Relationship problems are complicated most of the time. You may need to go through these steps during treatment process: -Assessment of problem from history. -Personality assessment of partners. -Individual/couple counseling sessions. -Supportive, problem solving, and coping skill training. -Anger management training. I hope this information has been both informative and helpful for you. In case of any doubt, I will be available for follow ups. Wish you good health. Regards, http://bit.ly/Dr-Ashish-Mittal

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