Respected Sir, I Am 38 Yrs Old Married Man. 70

Question: Respected Sir, I am 38 yrs old married man. 70 days back I visited a massage parlour for getting a massage. During the massage the massage I got chance to come to the lady and she offered me her breast to comfort me. I was drunk at that time and I pressed her breast and sucked them for 2 to 3 mins. I guessed she is non lactating and I have not tested anything. She also put some lubs on her palm and gave me hand job. I also put my fingers in her vegina. I am 100% sure that I have no cut in my fingers but while sucking her breast I noticed I have chapped lips due to cold and a non bleeding sore in my mouth. I did not involve in any panitrative sex with her. So my question is am I put myself in risk of hiv? Am I warrant to get test for hiv? What will be the risk if the lady is lactating and some amount of fluid passed into my mouth unknowingly or she had some small cuts in her nipples that I may did not noticed. One more thing that I had sex with my wife just for few second without condom. Am I put my wife in the risk? I am very worried . Please help me out from this grave of horror. Sincerely your.

Sir I want to add one more updated on my status. On 70th day from the exposure I am suffering from mild cold and sneezing and also drowsy. I am very worried does it show any kind of hiv syndromes..

Sir, from last 10 days I am suffering from muscular pain in lower thighs specially at bed time and also appears rashes in my both hands. These are the symptoms of hiv or not. Please guide me.