Suggest Remedy For Difficulty In Penetration During Intercourse

Posted on Fri, 24 Jul 2015

Question: Iam unable to insert my pennis into her vegina . It is first time both of us .her hole is small and my pennis is big .it is difficult to penetrate. Nd my pennis become soft when I try to put it inside. I fingered her and it happened easily.

Answered by Dr. Matthew J. Mangat (5 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Engage in foreplay.Penetration will occur gradually.

Detailed Answer:
Hello Chandelashwani and welcome to HCM.
As it's the first time, you both are anxious about intercourse. Take some time for foreplay. With that, gradually you'll find it much easier to penetrate.
Don't worry about size of vaginal opening or length of your penis ,etc.
Have an enjoyable experience.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad

Follow up: Dr. Matthew J. Mangat (2 hours later)

sir my pennis becomes soft when I try to enter it in her vegina despite it should be hard so that I can insert it with force . can u tell me the reason and the way to solve this problem

Answered by Dr. Matthew J. Mangat (8 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Don't be in a hurry.

Detailed Answer:
Hi again.
Don't get very anxious.It's just a matter of time.
After a certain of foreplay,very gradually once again try to perform.
It'll take a few attempts, which may last a few days.That's normal.
By using force, you may find the rigidity is lost.Give some time.
Don't be in a hurry.Also, don't keep thinking about it.As an Urologist,
this is a fairly common experience, which clears over a period of time.
Hope you're not anxious any more.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad