Brief Answer:
Use lubricants with fingers.

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Welcome to health care magic,

I have gone through your query and understand the concern,

This kind of problem may arise during intercourse,mostly because of partner when she is in extreme fear of pain so when you try to get in, the opening of vagina and surrounding area goes in to spasm.

This leads to further narrowing of vaginal opening making difficult for penis to penetrate deeply or completely.

At first, I would advise the use of a good and sterile lubricant which would assist the penis in entering the vagina with more ease.

I would also recommend to use your fingers with the application of a lubricant like KY Jelly or vaseline and insert them into the vagina. Do not try to insert them dry.

You can follow this steps to have a complete vaginal penetration.

1st - try to relax your wife and be with her in naked position without attempting penetration. You should wait till she starts enjoying your touching and rubbing but don't touch genital areas immediately (which might cause reflex contraction of vaginal muscles).

2nd - then add breast area and pubic area to the range of touching and massaging.

3rd - try insert single finger , may be with the help of KY Jelly or vaseline, and move it in and out.

4th - slowly make it two and when it is easy, try and insert penis.

By this protocol, you may achieve full penetration and if still problem persists then you may need sexologist personal visit.

I hope this will be helpful. Please feel free to write back to me for any further clarifications.

Regards,

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