Suggest Remedy For Difficulty In Penetration During Intercourse

Posted on Wed, 18 May 2016

Question: My age is 25. My pennis becomes soft and short when i tried to do sex with my gf.and im not able to insert my pennis into her vagina.please tell me a
solution.

Answered by Dr. Shubham Mehta (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
Need some details.

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Welcome to HCM.
I can understand your concerns.
Kindly provide following details:
1. Since when are having this problem?
2. Have you tried any medications for it?
3. Do you drink alcohol or smoke?
4. Do you have any other medical illness?
5. Does this problem occurs every time when you try to do sex?
6. Do you get early morning erections?

Hope to hear from you soon.
Thanks.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Deepak

Follow up: Dr. Shubham Mehta (11 minutes later)

Sir i actually from first my pennis was small about 2.5inches when erects it is having 5to 6inches.and my foreskin wasnt go back properly.when i try to do sex wth my gf it went back but at that day i goy so much pain an it came again to previous state:ieNormal mode..now its going somewhat back and when i try to sex wth my partner again it became soft and short.
And i masturbate regularly somany days.pls tell me solution how to make it strong and long while sex.
I dnt smoke.and i drink sometimes monthly once.i got happens dis everytime when i try to sex.i didnt tried any medications upto now.no other medical illness.i get erection sir but when i try to put into vagina the problem comes.

Pls rply me sir...about my problem.

My pennis is not going inside of her vagina also.. sirpls provide a solution sir.

Answered by Dr. Shubham Mehta (50 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Psychological problem.

Detailed Answer:
Dear,
Please relax.
Thanks for the details.

I have understood your problem.
In my opinion, your main problem is Anxiety to perform during sex.
First thing, your size is normal. Do not worry.
When any male has sex for the first time, there is some degree of pain as foreskin is stretched. The skin loosens with repeated intercourse and thus the pain decrease with time.

Because of pain, you have this anxiety that you would not be able to do sex. So, you loose your erection. This problem is purely psychological.

I would suggest you to use lubricant during sex. Secondly, you can pull your foreskin slowly during masturbation on 4-5 occasions. This should help. Also, fingering her vagina before sex can reduce the pain and discomfort plus it will keep you stimulated. If this does not help, you can take Tadalafil (prescription drug) to hell in erection.

Hope this helps.
Take care.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Shubham Mehta (5 minutes later)

Sir now there is no pain when during sex . The main problem now is when i tried to keep my pennis in vagina it becomes soft and short at that time and does not going inside.
So please provide solution fr this sir.for making pennis hard nd stood long for longer time.

Answered by Dr. Shubham Mehta (11 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Tadalafil.

Detailed Answer:
For this, you can use tablet Tadalafil (prescription drug).
It is to be taken 2 hours before intercourse.
This will help you to maintain erection for long time..It is a safe drug with minimal side effects like headache and runny nose, which resolves in 3-4 days.

Hope this helps.
Thanks.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar