Suggest Remedy For Premature Ejaculation

Posted on Sat, 16 Jan 2016

Question: Myself XXXXXX age 24. From last eight months I was having frequent nightfall, and from last month I'm not having nightfall. But now I'm having problem of premature ejaculation. Is there any relation between these two problems. While Masturbation I ejaculate within a minute. I started doing Masturbation at the age of 14. I don't smoke, non-alcoholic, take healthy food. Please suggest what should I do to to overcome this Problem and what should I do.

Answered by Dr. Pavan Kumar Gupta (1 hour later)

Brief answer....don't worry and relax
Detailed answer...
Hello,
Thanks for the query.
I have read your query.
I will answer your queries one by one.
Nightfall has definite connection with masturbation or sex.
Nightfalls occur when person is not doing masturbation or doing sex because then pent up semen finds a way outside during night. Semen is being formed 24 hours a person and if not taken out by yourself either by doing masturbation or sex,will find it's way outside in form of nightfall. A pretty normal phenomenon which is not to be bothered.
As far as premature ejaculation is concerned, it generally happens with people doing masturbation because there is no object in front of you like a female while doing actual sex. This results in conditioning of brain to just ejaculate which causes premature ejaculation.
I would advise you to stop doing masturbation as a matter of habit or after seeing porn.
Masturbate whenever you are sexually aroused naturally and not artificially like by deliberating seeing the porn.
don't make masturbation a habitual daily exercise.
In my opinion you are normal and just relax. Eat healthy and do regular aerobic exercises for wonderful sex life in future. Avoid alcohol and tobacco as you are abstaining from them now.
I hope it helps,however you are most welcome to revert to me for any further query.
Best of luck
Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Pavan Kumar Gupta (15 minutes later)

You are saying I should do Masturbation when I'm naturally aroused and not deliberately like after watching porn, can you please tell the reason behind this. There is some leak when I talk to one girl with whom I'm sexually attracted. Can you please tell the types of exercise that I should do. And what should be the time gap between two Masturbation.

Answered by Dr. Pavan Kumar Gupta (14 hours later)

Hello,
Habitual masturbation causes more of socio psychological harm.
You may get lonely,depressed,irritable etc. you try to shun social meetings just to get lonely so that you get time to watch porn and masturbate. You tend to go away from your duties. You start neglecting your studies and your profession.
You can go to net and read various socio psychological harms a person can get.
Leaking while talking to a female is normal and happens due to overstimulation. It goes away with time.
Do aerobic exercises like running,brisk walking,swimming etc.
Gap depends upon your natural arousal. If you get aroused twice a day,you go ahead and if you get aroused once in three days,then go ahead.
No limitation of the gap if arousal is naturally.
Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Pavan Kumar Gupta (1 hour later)

Actually some eight years ago I had relationship with a married woman and it was not physical. I ejaculate when I was over her and both of us were wearing clothes. So it is not physical but from then mostly I ejaculate when I sleep with her. We have never had physical relationship but I used to sleep with her just for ejaculation or just for satisfaction. I am not able to explain. Even some days back I slept with her and ejaculated by touching her parts, while we both has wore clothes. Even for the above I ejaculated within a minute.Will there be any effect of this in my married life.

Answered by Dr. Pavan Kumar Gupta (5 hours later)

Hello,
Just sleeping with a female without having sex and resulting in Pre mature ejaculation is because of anxiety. Once you start having sex regularly with some partner or with your wife,then this anxiety would go away. Don't keep any stress or anxiety about sex with your wife in future. Everything would be all right.
Thanks

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar