Question: hello Dr.

I've been having a problem with my bowel movement for a while and its getting worse through out the years. its just ruining my life in every way possible!
I rarely to never have a complete evacuation and even if i do it takes the whole day going in and out of the toilet for me to feel it, sometimes it takes 2 days! it very very hard for me to pass the rest and get it all out !

when i enter the toilet at first I pass a good amount but the feeling of emptiness is not present.
so i keep going in and out through out the whole day until im done and yes through out those times there is coming out! i dont go to the toilet every day i do it every other day.

Few years back i had this problem but i was done in an hour or a bit more but not like now ! im sacrificing a whole day and sometimes 2 just to finish! this is way too much! im missing out on work, i cant go out and in the days i dont have a movement im so tired from the day before (being in the bathroom and finishing so late at night) i get very little sleep during work days and sometimes NO sleep ! so i just get back home from work and sleep! so as you can see i have no life and im very depressed! and to top all that, hemorrhoids are becoming a part of my life too! they come and go but im always under that threat of aggravating the situation.

few monthes back i used to wash up and try to pull the remains out with my fingers and its so frustrating because sometimes i cant reach but i do feel the edge of it hanging in! so after a while i started to apply water inside and push the water out to get the hanging remains out with the push !! i know its bad but seriously im going crazy being sick of it!! but now the applying water method is getting to be very annoying but i couldnt stop it because its the only way i feel empty! but it is very very hard to wash up and make sure that all the water is out !!

I take fiber in my food, i Drink a lot of water and i use the Normacol Fiber plus the night before my bowel movement day! i use the squatty potty stool so that i push in that position! i tried enmas but not regularly! i have an athletic figure 174cm tall, 71kg. I exercise but lately i cant guarantee myself to go anywhere with that problem holding me back from anything and everything! like i said lately i have no life and its really depressing me!

Please Dr. i need your Help and opinion on where to start or how! just anything because im really starting to not see any worth in this life im living!