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Question: Dear Sir,
We are four member in my family . Myself 47 years, my wife 38 year my daughter 12 year and my elder divorce sister 56 year. Since two year my wife who is housewife has developed a thought that her life is meaning less. She is only servant of our three member as me and my sister is working and daughter is studding in class 5th. Some time my wife become very aggressive some time she cry and the matter is only mistake in daily routine work like we don’t switch off light or not place the thing in proper place etc. We don’t know how to behave with her. She is highly qualified and she thinks that we are the reason of her un success in life. Some time I give her clonozapam .125 mg and she feel quit better. Please suggest medicine to improve her self confidence or any other treatment as the family atmosphere is very stressfully. Still my wife is very ambitious and wants her own identity. we also want to support her but we can not give time as she aspect from our side.
Continue she is taking pregabalin 75 mg and mithailcobalamin due to mussels pain.
We are four member in my family . Myself 47 years, my wife 38 year my daughter 12 year and my elder divorce sister 56 year. Since two year my wife who is housewife has developed a thought that her life is meaning less. She is only servant of our three member as me and my sister is working and daughter is studding in class 5th. Some time my wife become very aggressive some time she cry and the matter is only mistake in daily routine work like we don’t switch off light or not place the thing in proper place etc. We don’t know how to behave with her. She is highly qualified and she thinks that we are the reason of her un success in life. Some time I give her clonozapam .125 mg and she feel quit better. Please suggest medicine to improve her self confidence or any other treatment as the family atmosphere is very stressfully. Still my wife is very ambitious and wants her own identity. we also want to support her but we can not give time as she aspect from our side.
Continue she is taking pregabalin 75 mg and mithailcobalamin due to mussels pain.
Brief Answer:
I sympathise with your problem.
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX welcome to HCM,
I sympathise with your problem.
This is a very common situation I face routinely in my clinic with many women.
After marriage, a woman gives up her career, her identity and her ability to earn by becoming a housewife and after many years, she becomes unemployable. Medicines are not a solution to this problem.
Explore these options---
---Get her a part time job in the field she is qualified in if she still wants to work, and make sure she succeeds and you support her at home.
---All of you --you, your daughter, your sister, pitch in with house work and give her an off after you people come home.
---You and your sister pay her half of what you both earn every month by cheque.
---Give all the money you earn to her telling her she is the head of the family.
All women want real financial XXXXXXX and not tokenism saying what I earn is yours too.
If this is not the correct scenario, please revert back to me so that I can suggest medication too if required.
I sympathise with your problem.
Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXXXXX welcome to HCM,
I sympathise with your problem.
This is a very common situation I face routinely in my clinic with many women.
After marriage, a woman gives up her career, her identity and her ability to earn by becoming a housewife and after many years, she becomes unemployable. Medicines are not a solution to this problem.
Explore these options---
---Get her a part time job in the field she is qualified in if she still wants to work, and make sure she succeeds and you support her at home.
---All of you --you, your daughter, your sister, pitch in with house work and give her an off after you people come home.
---You and your sister pay her half of what you both earn every month by cheque.
---Give all the money you earn to her telling her she is the head of the family.
All women want real financial XXXXXXX and not tokenism saying what I earn is yours too.
If this is not the correct scenario, please revert back to me so that I can suggest medication too if required.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Veerisetty Shyamkumar
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