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Suggest Treatment For Erectile Dysfunction And Premature Ejaculation After Taking Confido
Question: Hi doctor I have tried using confido during my first sexual inter course, but it resulted in both erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. My girlfriend was shocked why my penis was not standing. Finally I never had sex with her. Please suggest how to avoid this problem in future.
Brief Answer:
be relax and do not think about performance while doing sex
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for writing to us.
You have not mentioned your age.You should be young fellow.
From your narration it seems that you were already anxious and worried about your performance before first sexual intercourse.That is why you used confido. It is herbal preparation for improving male sex performance. However no studies done to check its efficacy.
In apprehension of success erection was not proper and you could not attempt sex. This happens to many males just due to anxiety.Nothing to worry about.
Whenever you attempt sex next time, do not think about penis erection or success of attempt. Just enjoy foreplay and during that you will erect and complete the success in smooth manner.
Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.
regards,
Dr.Chntan Solanki.
be relax and do not think about performance while doing sex
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for writing to us.
You have not mentioned your age.You should be young fellow.
From your narration it seems that you were already anxious and worried about your performance before first sexual intercourse.That is why you used confido. It is herbal preparation for improving male sex performance. However no studies done to check its efficacy.
In apprehension of success erection was not proper and you could not attempt sex. This happens to many males just due to anxiety.Nothing to worry about.
Whenever you attempt sex next time, do not think about penis erection or success of attempt. Just enjoy foreplay and during that you will erect and complete the success in smooth manner.
Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.
regards,
Dr.Chntan Solanki.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Vaishalee Punj
Hi doctor thanks for the reply. I am not young I Am 29 years old. Will be getting married sooner next year. I am a software professional where the job is stressful. You mean to say no treatment or anything else required for this problem. I am a bit short tempered. Please advice on this.
Brief Answer:
You can be helped with cousneling and behaviour therapy
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for follow up and more information.Your concern seems to be more.
29 is young age according to mine. You have not married yet also.
Many males like you become anxious before marriage. Most of them are apprehensive about their sexual performance after marriage.
Only one failure of sex attempt does not mean that it is erectile dysfunction.practice makes the man perfect. When most of the time(at least 75 % of the total attempts) penis does not get erection sufficient to do successful intercourse , we can call it erectile dysfunction(ED).
You can be helped by sex counseling in detail as well premarital counseling by a psychiatrist. This will help to relieve your anxiety and perform well in sex.In my opinion at this point you are not in need of any medicine.
To have good sex life healthy body and relax mind is necessary. To get rid of stress of job you need to modify your lifestyle.Provide sufficient time for sleep,leisure and refreshment.You can learn relaxation techniques,time management through counseling by a psychologist/psychiatrist.
Short tempered can occur in may situations.It may be the symptom of stressful life, anxiety or depression. It can be part of personality or personality disorder.it require detail history and mental status examination to diagnose the cause of the same.If it is the only symptom it can be treated with psychotherapy and behavior therapy. If some underlying disorder is found out treatment depends on that.
In conclusion, you do not have any physical sexual problem.Your problem is psychological likely and you can get rid of comfortably with help of professional.
I wish this answers your concern. I will be glad to answer more if any.
http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
You can be helped with cousneling and behaviour therapy
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for follow up and more information.Your concern seems to be more.
29 is young age according to mine. You have not married yet also.
Many males like you become anxious before marriage. Most of them are apprehensive about their sexual performance after marriage.
Only one failure of sex attempt does not mean that it is erectile dysfunction.practice makes the man perfect. When most of the time(at least 75 % of the total attempts) penis does not get erection sufficient to do successful intercourse , we can call it erectile dysfunction(ED).
You can be helped by sex counseling in detail as well premarital counseling by a psychiatrist. This will help to relieve your anxiety and perform well in sex.In my opinion at this point you are not in need of any medicine.
To have good sex life healthy body and relax mind is necessary. To get rid of stress of job you need to modify your lifestyle.Provide sufficient time for sleep,leisure and refreshment.You can learn relaxation techniques,time management through counseling by a psychologist/psychiatrist.
Short tempered can occur in may situations.It may be the symptom of stressful life, anxiety or depression. It can be part of personality or personality disorder.it require detail history and mental status examination to diagnose the cause of the same.If it is the only symptom it can be treated with psychotherapy and behavior therapy. If some underlying disorder is found out treatment depends on that.
In conclusion, you do not have any physical sexual problem.Your problem is psychological likely and you can get rid of comfortably with help of professional.
I wish this answers your concern. I will be glad to answer more if any.
http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Bhagyalaxmi Nalaparaju
Hi doctor thanks for your mail. As suggested by you I get depressed often. Also I have been smoking for the past 10 years, this might also be the reason right. I socially drink. please guide me other than mind relaxation I need to be strict on the food which I consume. Also I need to quit Smoking coz I could see there is some energy missing from my body. during my college days I play good cricket and I was an athlete, but now also I play good cricket. I have this capability of walking up to 10kms on a single stretch. Finally please guide what are the things which I need not do quit. I have never dated a girl before it happening for the past one year , since I struggled a lot to land a job, now I am well settled with a good job. Thanks a lot for your advice which is worth a lot to me.
Brief Answer:
Quit smoking,continue exercise and if need(see below) consult psychiatrist
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for information.
Smoking does not provide any health benefit at all.It affects almost every system of the body.It can also affect sex life. After chronic habit of smoking penile vessels loses elasticity and erection problem occurs. Smoking also can cause hypertension and by that way also affects erection capacity.So better to stop smoking as soon as possible. If you feel difficulty in stopping smoking, psychiatrist can help you for deaddiction.
Exercise of any type is always helpful for body. if you are fit and healthy ,your sex life would be normal naturally.Exercise daily also helps to relax mind also.So continue exercise either walk, run or play cricket.
Social drinking once a while is ok. Just take care that it should not be converted in daily habit.
In diet you should take traditional diet according to your culture. It should include vegetables and fruits in enough amount. Milk and egg are very nutritious food.Avoid junk food/fast food in daily life. Once a while it is ok.
It is good that you have settled in job.Probably going to settle in marital life soon. If you feel doubt regarding your sexual capacity, consult psychiatrist for evaluation. Or I think just try further for sex with relax mind as I mentioned and see the results.You will be successful. If not succeed by chance, consult psychiatrist.
If you have depressed mood for almost all of the day and at least for 2 weeks, there may be possibility of depression and need evaluation.
Otherwise today's fast life makes person depressed frequently.If that depressed mood is affecting your social or occupational life significantly, consult psychiatrist for evaluation.If no other problem in life, it is ok.
But frequent depressed mood and short tempered nature suggest that you are in stress.Better to consult psychiatrist for counselling for stress when you get time in near future. This can prevent depression to occuar.
Hope you will find this helpful. If still any query there, I will be glad to answer.
If not, you can close the discussion and if feasible give your feedback so I can improve service.
In future you can contact me directly on this site with this link: http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
Quit smoking,continue exercise and if need(see below) consult psychiatrist
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for information.
Smoking does not provide any health benefit at all.It affects almost every system of the body.It can also affect sex life. After chronic habit of smoking penile vessels loses elasticity and erection problem occurs. Smoking also can cause hypertension and by that way also affects erection capacity.So better to stop smoking as soon as possible. If you feel difficulty in stopping smoking, psychiatrist can help you for deaddiction.
Exercise of any type is always helpful for body. if you are fit and healthy ,your sex life would be normal naturally.Exercise daily also helps to relax mind also.So continue exercise either walk, run or play cricket.
Social drinking once a while is ok. Just take care that it should not be converted in daily habit.
In diet you should take traditional diet according to your culture. It should include vegetables and fruits in enough amount. Milk and egg are very nutritious food.Avoid junk food/fast food in daily life. Once a while it is ok.
It is good that you have settled in job.Probably going to settle in marital life soon. If you feel doubt regarding your sexual capacity, consult psychiatrist for evaluation. Or I think just try further for sex with relax mind as I mentioned and see the results.You will be successful. If not succeed by chance, consult psychiatrist.
If you have depressed mood for almost all of the day and at least for 2 weeks, there may be possibility of depression and need evaluation.
Otherwise today's fast life makes person depressed frequently.If that depressed mood is affecting your social or occupational life significantly, consult psychiatrist for evaluation.If no other problem in life, it is ok.
But frequent depressed mood and short tempered nature suggest that you are in stress.Better to consult psychiatrist for counselling for stress when you get time in near future. This can prevent depression to occuar.
Hope you will find this helpful. If still any query there, I will be glad to answer.
If not, you can close the discussion and if feasible give your feedback so I can improve service.
In future you can contact me directly on this site with this link: http://bit.ly/drchintansolanki
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Bhagyalaxmi Nalaparaju
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