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Suggest Treatment For Loss Of Erection During Intercourse Due To Anxiety
Question: Hi, I never had sex before marriage so I was a amateur in it. Now after marriage , when I insert, I dont feel fun, or I am no where near the climax, and I get anxious, or otherwise also, it gets soft and turned off. I can easily get it erected again by touching over her vagina but, it gets soft again when i am in. I had problems in regard to position also initially. This all makes me embarrassed in front of my wife. Its been 2 mnths, and I have not been able to ejacaulate inside. We always use condom for planning. Please guide what to do
Brief Answer:
Try the way suggested below
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Thanks for the query
It is good you masturbated because this makes you aware of the release of Semen . I suggest you to stop thinking about climax so soon but think and feel about the pleasure only You must know the missionary position and basics about female genitals . If you were able to masturbate properly, you can have vaginal sex as well medically. First insert your one finger in the vagina and move in back and forth a little, then make it two if possible. Do it till your wife is comfortable with the procedure. Proceed with fore play and focus on pleasure given and received as much as you can. When you feel ready, put on condom and again continue with foreplay. Now asking her to widen her legs and help you place the penis at correct place, try and push it in gently, still focussing on the pleasure. I am sure it would be fine
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Try the way suggested below
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Thanks for the query
It is good you masturbated because this makes you aware of the release of Semen . I suggest you to stop thinking about climax so soon but think and feel about the pleasure only You must know the missionary position and basics about female genitals . If you were able to masturbate properly, you can have vaginal sex as well medically. First insert your one finger in the vagina and move in back and forth a little, then make it two if possible. Do it till your wife is comfortable with the procedure. Proceed with fore play and focus on pleasure given and received as much as you can. When you feel ready, put on condom and again continue with foreplay. Now asking her to widen her legs and help you place the penis at correct place, try and push it in gently, still focussing on the pleasure. I am sure it would be fine
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
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