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Suggest Treatment For Loss Of Libido

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Posted on Sat, 6 May 2017
Question: Dear Dr. Ditah My husband and I are back together now after being separated for 3 months. He had a relationship w/his ex-girlfriend last year when we were separated for 3 months. Now that he's home, hasn't even tried to have relations with me. Is there a specific reason, why?
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Answered by Dr. Ivo Ditah (2 hours later)
Brief Answer:
He's probably remorseful. I suggest you take the lead!

Detailed Answer:
Hi and thanks for these updates. Am so happy to hear that you both are finally back. This is good news and I really wish you well.

You know, he's certainly remorseful and feels shy to initiate intimacy as you might see it as not genuine. The responsibility is your to help make him feel more welcomed. As the wife, be proactive and lure him into become sexually aroused. Knowing you are certainly working in that light will help him loosen up. Don't allow it to go on for long but seduce and arouse him and get him into the mood. This will free his mind.

I hope this helps. I wish you well. Feel free to follow up with me on how it turns out. Remember, you have to really pull him along.

I await your updates.
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Suggest Treatment For Loss Of Libido

Brief Answer: He's probably remorseful. I suggest you take the lead! Detailed Answer: Hi and thanks for these updates. Am so happy to hear that you both are finally back. This is good news and I really wish you well. You know, he's certainly remorseful and feels shy to initiate intimacy as you might see it as not genuine. The responsibility is your to help make him feel more welcomed. As the wife, be proactive and lure him into become sexually aroused. Knowing you are certainly working in that light will help him loosen up. Don't allow it to go on for long but seduce and arouse him and get him into the mood. This will free his mind. I hope this helps. I wish you well. Feel free to follow up with me on how it turns out. Remember, you have to really pull him along. I await your updates.