
Suggest Treatment For Low Libido And Painful Intercourse In A Woman

is there dryness, use K-Y jelly lubricant
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern.
Lack of sexual drive can be due to sertraline as well as her depression. However it is reversible side effect. She has stopped the drug since more than 1 month. So we need to check that she is not in any stress now. If everything is fine, lack of lubrication is likely reason. I recommend using water based KY gel which provides enough lubrication without any side effect. If she is not able to enjoy due to pain, taking pain killer like diclofenac or ibuprofen before 2 hours of sex may help.
Even after this if problem persists, consulting sexologist(psychiatrist) as well as gynecologist will help to find out the cause and specific remedy.
Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.


time is the solution,support her as per her needs
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for more information.
She is under many kinds of stress. Her occupational stress, your relationship stress, not able to enjoy the sex all are significant factors and she is already on medicines. It is ok that you cannot enjoy the sex. In relationship it is happening frequently with many couples. You need to spend romantic time with her if she permits. Enjoy the foreplay maximum. Continue working on your relationship problem. I recommend not taking xanax from time to time. Rather go for specific medical or psychotherapeutic treatment, consult psychiatrist for that.
Time is the solution of such problems many time, ask her what kind of support she needs form you and try to provide it, not sex but love and care should be the points in your relationship. For her if inability to enjoy the sex is an issue it can also be solved when she will come out of the stress.
Take care.

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