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Question: I am 34, not feeling excitement for sex. Love to sleep alone. When he comes near to me heart n mind says push him back. When he touches internals don't feel anything. Its ruining my life. Plz help
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Detailed Answer:
Hi
Thanks for sending your query.
There can be many reasons for this: you may have significant depression , relationship problem , not liking a habit in your husband like tobacco, alcohol , bad breath, his demands in sex and so on. Your statement tells me that you have aversion to either your husband or sex as such. If you feel attracted to any one else and feel excitement ( you need not mention it), it would mean you have situational problem with your husband. I would need to know the details of your sex life after marriage including your likes and dislikes.
It could be due to some hormonal problem as well like testosterone deficiency, raised Prolactin can also be a reason.
Regards.
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Please write the details
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Thanks for sending your query.
There can be many reasons for this: you may have significant depression , relationship problem , not liking a habit in your husband like tobacco, alcohol , bad breath, his demands in sex and so on. Your statement tells me that you have aversion to either your husband or sex as such. If you feel attracted to any one else and feel excitement ( you need not mention it), it would mean you have situational problem with your husband. I would need to know the details of your sex life after marriage including your likes and dislikes.
It could be due to some hormonal problem as well like testosterone deficiency, raised Prolactin can also be a reason.
Regards.
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Deepak
Brief Answer:
Talk to your husband
Detailed Answer:
Hi
If thyroid problem is controlled , do you feel to be sad most of the time?Depression and fatigue are two causes
Some of his demands don't suit you, This could be very important information Some men have. demands like anal sex which is strongly disliked by the wife You should talk to your husband regarding this , may take the help of a sexologist Such situations need a couple of in depth sessions to figure out what went wrong? You can even get online sessions
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Talk to your husband
Detailed Answer:
Hi
If thyroid problem is controlled , do you feel to be sad most of the time?Depression and fatigue are two causes
Some of his demands don't suit you, This could be very important information Some men have. demands like anal sex which is strongly disliked by the wife You should talk to your husband regarding this , may take the help of a sexologist Such situations need a couple of in depth sessions to figure out what went wrong? You can even get online sessions
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Naveen Kumar
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