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Question: I have an erection problem usually my sperm gets out early while having sex with my partner and its hard for me to have a erection even if I did have an erection it will not be strong...
I have this problem because I used to masterbate a lot... 1-3 time a days almost 5 days a week...
I am looking for permanent solution an operation to restore my health back if possible... I am 25 years old...
I have this problem because I used to masterbate a lot... 1-3 time a days almost 5 days a week...
I am looking for permanent solution an operation to restore my health back if possible... I am 25 years old...
Brief Answer:
This is known as premature ejaculation
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for using healthcaremagic.
I read your query and understand your concerns.
From the available description it appears more of a premature ejaculation as you are not lasting for enough duration during sexual activity.
Before we make any conclusions I request you to provide following details.
1. Your duration of problem
2. How the problem started whether it was on off or continous from beginning?
3. Frequency of the problem in a week or in a month out of what number of sexual interactions were failure in a month.
4. What are the factors that increase the problem?
5. Factors that relieve the problem- thoughts, situations, partner, place etc
6. Do you get early morning erection
7. If yes how frequent and is there any difference from previous level ?
8. Your marital status and partner details- Is she very critical, demands sex more than what can you think, does she feel superior to you?
9. Effect on your relationship so far
10. Details of medical illness, if any
11. Medications you are receiving currently, if any
Once you post these details I will try to analyze the cause of it and will suggest you accordingly.
Thanks and regards
Dr Ashok Kumar
This is known as premature ejaculation
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for using healthcaremagic.
I read your query and understand your concerns.
From the available description it appears more of a premature ejaculation as you are not lasting for enough duration during sexual activity.
Before we make any conclusions I request you to provide following details.
1. Your duration of problem
2. How the problem started whether it was on off or continous from beginning?
3. Frequency of the problem in a week or in a month out of what number of sexual interactions were failure in a month.
4. What are the factors that increase the problem?
5. Factors that relieve the problem- thoughts, situations, partner, place etc
6. Do you get early morning erection
7. If yes how frequent and is there any difference from previous level ?
8. Your marital status and partner details- Is she very critical, demands sex more than what can you think, does she feel superior to you?
9. Effect on your relationship so far
10. Details of medical illness, if any
11. Medications you are receiving currently, if any
Once you post these details I will try to analyze the cause of it and will suggest you accordingly.
Thanks and regards
Dr Ashok Kumar
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
1) When I was at the age of 22-23, I started to know masterbation when I was 16.
2) The problem started when I used to masterbate a lot till this day and it continues from beginning.
3) in a week, no sexual failure in a month since we try to do out best to have and erect and it takes time to have and erect by playing and kissing... I can't have an erect without kissing...
4) Its because I used to masterbate ALOT!
5) if I stop sex for a period of time (3 days - weeks) then I'll have better erection..
6) yes I get in the early morning almost every time,
7)yes there is before I used to masterbate I get very strong erection!
8) since she demand sex then yes she feels superior to me.
9) very worried that we might breakup
10) non
11) non
2) The problem started when I used to masterbate a lot till this day and it continues from beginning.
3) in a week, no sexual failure in a month since we try to do out best to have and erect and it takes time to have and erect by playing and kissing... I can't have an erect without kissing...
4) Its because I used to masterbate ALOT!
5) if I stop sex for a period of time (3 days - weeks) then I'll have better erection..
6) yes I get in the early morning almost every time,
7)yes there is before I used to masterbate I get very strong erection!
8) since she demand sex then yes she feels superior to me.
9) very worried that we might breakup
10) non
11) non
Brief Answer:
You need to exercize kegel
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks fort reverting back to me.
AS I can see there is no problem with erection but you get problem due to performance anxiety resulting from fear of failure.
It is natural because all blood is drawn to your anxiety centres leading to less blood available for your penis.
I am sure that once you stop thinking that there is no problem you will feel much better. Every day erection in the morning indicates that you do not have any inherent problem as it occurs at the time when your mind is not worrying.
Regarding premature ejaculation you need to exercise Kegel method. It is difficult for me to explain here but you can google and do it at least 30 times for three times a day counting to 90 contractions per day. This will help you in maintaining your stamina for longer interval.
Other than you can use dapoxetine with consultation from your doctor for Premature ejaculation.
Hope I am able to answer your concerns.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
If not, you may close the discussion and if possible you may rate the answer for me, so that I get a good feedback.
In future if you wish to contact me directly, you can use the below mentioned link:
http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-ashok-kumar/67386
Thanks and regards
You need to exercize kegel
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks fort reverting back to me.
AS I can see there is no problem with erection but you get problem due to performance anxiety resulting from fear of failure.
It is natural because all blood is drawn to your anxiety centres leading to less blood available for your penis.
I am sure that once you stop thinking that there is no problem you will feel much better. Every day erection in the morning indicates that you do not have any inherent problem as it occurs at the time when your mind is not worrying.
Regarding premature ejaculation you need to exercise Kegel method. It is difficult for me to explain here but you can google and do it at least 30 times for three times a day counting to 90 contractions per day. This will help you in maintaining your stamina for longer interval.
Other than you can use dapoxetine with consultation from your doctor for Premature ejaculation.
Hope I am able to answer your concerns.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
If not, you may close the discussion and if possible you may rate the answer for me, so that I get a good feedback.
In future if you wish to contact me directly, you can use the below mentioned link:
http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-ashok-kumar/67386
Thanks and regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
is there any operation to fix my problem?
Brief Answer:
Mediation and exercise can help you
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for reverting back to me.
Operation are available for erection problem but not for premature ejaculation. Other than that they are done in case all other methods get failed.
Since your condition can be treated with help of medications and exercise, I doubt any doctor will think of operation in your case. The reason for this is because operation are associated with significant problems and risks.
I hope you understand the point.
Thanks and regards
Mediation and exercise can help you
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for reverting back to me.
Operation are available for erection problem but not for premature ejaculation. Other than that they are done in case all other methods get failed.
Since your condition can be treated with help of medications and exercise, I doubt any doctor will think of operation in your case. The reason for this is because operation are associated with significant problems and risks.
I hope you understand the point.
Thanks and regards
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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